Meet Bruce, an African-American foster caregiver who is changing lives

By Wonswayla Mackey
Deputy Director of Clark County Family Services

We just celebrated Black History Month, a powerful reminder of the resilience, strength, and contributions of African-Americans throughout history. It serves as an inspiring backdrop to highlight the vital role of African American foster parents in our communities. It’s a time to honor their journey and encourage more families to step into this noble role. 

I would like to give special thanks to foster caregiver, Bruce. Bruce not only fosters teens at home, but he also helps youth through his work at a foster agency as well. Our team at Family Services asked Bruce to share his insight on fostering. 

CCFS: How long have you fostered? 

Bruce: 12 years 

CCFS: How many kids have you fostered? 

Bruce: 30 kids 

CCFS: What is the best part of fostering teens? 

Bruce: Being able to work with them on building skills and discipline. Then, seeing it manifest as they move forward in their lives- whether that is through reunifying with their birth family or as they age out of foster care. 

CCFS: What is your most memorable moment as a foster parent? 

Bruce: It’s always reunification. When kids are able to go back home and reunify with their parents. 

CCFS: Reunification can be hard for caregivers. What is the best way to manage reunification? 

Bruce: We’re human. It’s good to go through the emotions. I get sad, but I know it is the best for the kids. I’m able to keep in contact with most of my kids, though. 

CCFS: What 3 words would you use to describe your work as a foster parent? 

Bruce: Silent Super Hero. This is a job that you do where you aren’t looking for a “thanks.” It is a thankless deed you are doing for the community, especially, for the kids. You know you are making a difference for them, and that is all that matters. 

CCFS: What is your biggest strength as a caregiver? 

Bruce: Patience and learning how to work with the kids who are coming into my home. They have a lot of trauma behind them. It’s being able to have patience and understanding, and working with the kids through that. 

CCFS: What was it like being a single foster dad? 

Bruce: It was a little challenging, but the kids that I had were helpful and we all worked together. It was doable. I have support, like resources and other foster parents who are there to help me out. 

CCFS: What is your advice for anyone thinking of becoming a foster parent? 

Bruce: We need more foster parents! You can never fully be prepared. Twelve years into it, I’m still learning, and I’m still adjusting. 

Clark County Family Services has an immediate need for caregivers. Your first step in becoming a foster parent is to join us for a no-obligation foster care information session. Please register at www.clarkcountyfostercare.com.